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Category Archives: Navigating Change
Working in Greece & Opening Doors
I’m back! It was a fabulous 3 week adventure in Greece working for Global Volunteers on the island of Crete. My twin sister, Diane, and three other wonderful women from Canada, Kathleen Close; Sandra Close and Sheila Davis made up our volunteer team under the wise leadership of Sam Pinakoulaki, our country host. We called ourselves “Sam’s Chippy Chicks” and what fun we had! The wine was flowing; the food was terrific; the sun was hot; the buses were crowded and the laughs were endless.
Greek Hospitality is the Best!
One of the best parts of the trip was living in the family hotel, Hotel Hankadas, and becoming part of the Greek extended family that gathers there every morning, afternoon and evening to talk, watch the political news, eat, work in the vineyards around the hotel and share a glass of wine with us at the end of the night.
We loved Paul who runs the hotel with his two sisters, Irene & Suzanne and his wife, Catherine. There are also lots of other community people in and out including several traveling salesmen who sell linens out of their trucks up in the villages.
Our Work in Greece – Opening Doors for Future Volunteers
We were the 87th Global Volunteer team (and the first for 2012) to work in this small community, Amoudara, just outside of Heraklion in Crete. Our work assignment changed upon our arrival – from working each day in a local school teaching English to more community outreach and liaison work. As one door closed another opened!
We were honored to be invited to work in a battered women’s safe house planting a garden and cleaning the house for the residents. There are only two battered women’s shelters in the entire country! In addition, we represented Global Volunteers at their monthly Board Meeting meeting networking with many of Heraklion’s most influential women activists – from age 80 to 20. Our hope is that future teams will be allowed to work with the shelter especially in supporting the organization’s future children’s orphanage “House of Angels”.
We also learned that “volunteerism” is a very new concept in Greece. We had a chance to meet with a newly formed group of women volunteers through a special invitation by the Vice-Mayor of Gazi. In the local government chambers we participated in a joint meeting sharing our visions and commitment to volunteerism in all communities. It didn’t matter that we spoke different languages – smiles & laughs communicated all that we need.
Over the next few days, we were invited to participate in a larger women’s meeting at the local Chamber of Commerce and then to visit a local kindergarten for young children of working parents. The weeks ended with a phenomenal trip up to the mountains to visit Saint Spiro’s center for mentally delayed adults (more on that later!).
I have many funny stories and wonderful lessons learned. I’ll share many of those over the next few weeks. And if you see me packing my backpack again you know where I’m going . . . to Hotel Hankadas!
First Step in Working with Multiple Generations
I’ve got all the generations . . . a Traditionalist Dad; a Baby Boomer husband; a Generation Y son; a Linkster daughter and my community non-profit work with multiple Generation Xers. And everyone is working in some capacity. Even my Dad, age 94, is a corporate attorney and goes into his office every day.
In today’s work world, we have the opportunity but also the challenge of working with all five generations. Each generation has different expectations, experiences and expertise to bring to the table. And each also has their prefered ways of communicating as any parent of a teenager knows. All of these differences can make the daily job of the project manager, team leader or supervisor infinately more complex and challenging.
First Step: Know the Generational Context
I’ve found that reading about the “generational context” that each of these generations grew up in has been invaluable in understanding the lenses that they see themselves, their colleagues and their jobs. It’s amazing the differences in generational perspective!
One of my favorite books is Generations, INC: From Boomers to Linksters – Managing the Friction Between Generations at Work, Meagan Johnson & Larry Johnson, 2010. Written by a father-daughter team in a lively converational style, this book is filled with research and personal interviews to help us appreciate how each generation perceives their world around them. And the authors go a step further by giving us concrete tips on how to lead and be led by each of these generations. It’s a must-have book if you’re in a leadership position or now working for someone in a different generation than yourself.
What Works with Each Generation
This is my short cut list of how to maximize the gifts each generation brings to their work.
- Traditionalist (1918-1945) Use their life wisdom especially in times of change.
- Baby Boomers (1946-1964) Give them new challenges to stretch & grow.
- Generation X (1965-1980) Keep things moving & provide autonomy.
- Generation Y (1981-1995) Have them take the lead with technology.
- Linksters (born after 1995) Tap into their expertise with social networking.
And it goes both ways . . . you may find yourself as a Baby Boomer working for that Generation Y boss. If so, grab up this book, keep your sense of humor and enjoy the ride!
It’s All So Complicated!
I’m actually a very patient person. And I’m bright, fairly tech savvy, can make time and have resources available to me. It’s just that everything in today’s world is so complicated. These last few weeks have pushed my patience and good humor to the edge. Here’s my story . . .
I leave in a couple of days for a three week Global Volunteers work assignment in Greece. I’ll be gone from the office a full month so there are lots of projects to be taken care of both here at the office, at home and in my community work. But since I’ve lived overseas and travel quite a bit it shouldn’t be hard. Or is it?
Passwords, Passwords & More Passwords
If you have oodles of time and enjoy the thrill of the chase to solve just one problem per day then tackling the banking industry; the health care system; the mobile phone network or the Greek ferry system will provide hours of entertainment. But I don’t have that time and energy – and I don’t have a secretary (as I remind my 94 year old attorney Dad with his own secretary).
And everything needs a password, a log-in and then a host of “security questions”. The funniest was this past weekend when I had to answer a series of “multiple choice” questions from three different banking people asking the most obscure questions – no longer your favorite color or mother’s maiden name.
So here’s what I’ve learned in this entire process.
- First., punch “0” over and over to try and connect with a live person. Forget trying to go through the prompts hoping to find one that matches what you’re looking for – it’s just not going to happen.
- Second, try my sister’s trick which is to simply plead ignorance and say that you don’t use/own a computer and therefore can’t do these transactions on-line yourself. The live person will usually say “No problem, I’ll do it for you”. Works beautifully.
- Third, when you’ve reached the end of your patience, as I did with getting two sets of instructions from my mobile phone carrier, turn the task over to someone who still has the strength to persevere – hubby, Wally, retired Marine who loves a good challenge. I found myself saying to the young phone salesperson “Are you telling me that this IPhone which is “smart” enough to make spaghetti sauce can’t be used anyplace in Europe”. Yep, that’s what she was saying ’cause Greece is a GM Country – now what does that mean?
- And finally, keep your sense of humor and expectations very, very low. Don’t expect to get an answer to your question the first time around but rather you will be referred on and on and on. Someday you may get an answer if you still remember or care about the question.
“Leaving on a Jet Plane . . . “
Sharing my story with you has given me some wonderful perspective. So I think I might just go on down to the Reno airport two days early, order a glass of wine and settle back with a good book. If you want to call me on my fancy new “loaner” IPhone that I won’t know how to work – please try. Just don’t ask me for a password!
Job Interviews: What To Do After
With a delicious sense of accomplishment, you leave the interview ready to celebrate making it through yet-another interview. It’s been exciting but also exhausting. And you’re ready to meet some friends for a glass of wine and tell them the story of how the interview went – especially if it’s for a position you really want.
But wait . . . there’s one more step to take. And that’s a short “performance-based” followup email and a handwritten thank you note. Sounds like a lot of work when you’re emotionally you’re ready to relax? Well, this extra step can (and often does) make the difference in how you are remembered and considered for the position.
Your Follow-Up Email Reinforces Impression
First, send a short email to the individual (or individuals) that interviewed you expressing your appreciation for the interview and covering these three points:
- Your understanding of the needs of the organization/priorities
- How you can bring unique value to the organization/ie. meet those needs
- Your confidence that you would be a good fit for the position & organization
And then don’t forget to express your interest in being hired. Amazing how many people never say that either in the interview or in the follow-up written correspondence. If you want the job, tell them!
Your Handwritten Note – Icing on the Cake
Second, sit down and write a short, short thank you note on a nice card saying simply thank you for the interview, you feel you would be a good fit and you’re looking forward to hearing from them soon. Just like our mothers used to make us do . . . it’s a habit that sets you apart from the pack. And that thank you note always brings a smile because so few people take the time to say a personal thanks.
And . . . think of this. If they offer the position to someone else who then turns it down (happens all the time) and they are looking at an alternate and they see your note sitting on their desk . . . we always want to stay in front of the decision makers continuing to build a positive relationship. Try it!
Power of Intention in the Job Search!
Over the last couple of weeks I have been writing about my college-age daughter’s summer internship quest through the streets of New York City. Barbara’s journey has given me wonderful material for this blog and allowed me to share with you the multiple complex steps of going through an intense job search. And it’s been at an amazing pace!
What we all can learn from Barbara is the power of intention. Early on, Barbara knew what she wanted . . . and she was determined to make it happen. Being a strong “J” on the Myers Briggs Personality Inventory (MBTI), Barbara figured out what she needed to do: when she needed to do it, and then (with a bit of help from Coach Mom) how to move through these steps quickly but effectively. The result . . . a summer internship at a prestigious firm in New York City for the summer.
This is what Barbara did . . . not alone because a savvy job seeker pulls in all the resources they can. So she had excellent help from the Career Center at Syracuse University, New House School of Communication, and late night help from her ever faithful Coach Mom.
It’s a Journey – Not for the Faint of Heart
It’s tough and not for the faint of heart. But this list of the “must dos” of a job search will give you some ideas if and when you start thinking about a delicious new career chapter for yourself – or maybe for one of those family members who are also itching for a change.
These were Barbara’s 12 job search steps . . .
- Clarified exactly what she wanted – the who, what, where, when & why
- Maximized networking contacts & references to open doors
- Used professional resources and offers of help appropriately
- Designed an eye-catching resume specific to the PR industry
- Created targeted cover letters that matched need to value
- Personalized follow-up emails to ensure a prompt response
- Complied a “I Can Do” mini-portfolio
- Rehearsed telephone interview strategies and questions (& debriefed afterwards)
- Prepared physically, emotionally & mentally for on-site personal interviews (& debriefed afterwards)
- Sent personal thank you letters after every interview
- Graciously handled final offers & negotiated hiring terms/days/responsibilities etc.
- Celebrated!
Is It Worth It?
If you are ready for a brand new career or to take your career up to that next level the answer is a solid YES. But it takes work, perseverance and a belief in yourself that you can make something happen. It might take longer in this tough economy but don’t give up . . . just give it time. And if you get stuck, call me!
