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Category Archives: Navigating Change
The Power of Optimism!
Optimism is a powerful business tool. It is a magnet. People gravitate toward others that project that positive energy, spirit and belief in the future. It is good business whether you own your own company, work in collaboration with others or are employed by someone else. Adopting an optimistic outlook (yes, you can learn it) makes all the difference in your personal power, influence and future business success.
What is Optimism?
“Optimism is the ability to look at the brighter side of life and to maintain a positive attitude even in the face of adversity”. Bar-On 2002 Optimistic people have hope. They are energetic and self-motivated because they perceive difficult situations as:
- temporary with an end in sight
- as not being their fault (bigger than just them)
- that they have control in how they respond (a choice)
Teaching Yourself to Be Optimistic
So how do you learn to be optimistic? Yes, we first learn optimism from those adult figures in our early childhood but as the years go by we can also teach ourselves to be more optimistic. We do this by shifting how we think, speak and act. It takes self-awareness and daily practice.
Here are five ways to bring more optimism into your life.
- Think Differently (practice realistic abundance thinking not scarcity thinking)
- Speak Differently (use words and ideas that expand not restrict your perceptions)
- Act Differently (step into possibilities, act “As If”)
- Develop an “Optimistic Network” (actively seek out others that boost your energy)
- Sleep & Laugh More (physical & emotional self-care)
The ROI of Optimism
Is it worth the effort? My answer is yes! Try it and see. On the business side, optimistic people are like magnets. Others gravitate to them – they want to do business with them. Optimistic people expect to be successful and their positive attitude and energy attract opportunities.
On the personal side, optimistic people are physically and emotionally healthier, have significantly more positive relationships with family and friends, are well-connected to their communities and generally enjoy and appreciate their daily lives. They live in abundance not scarcity.
So be that person that others seek out – there is no down side only multiple benefits for you!
“City Slickers”: The Ultimate Internship
I just finished laughing my way through the classic movie “City Slickers” with Billy Crystal. Do you remember this one? It’s all about three good friends in the throes of middle age who sign up to be volunteers on a cattle drive from New Mexico to Colorado. I’ve watched it many times and love the themes of friendship, adventure and finding what is uniquely meaningful to each of us in different chapters of our lives.
The Ultimate Unpaid Internship
But this time, I watched this movie from a different perspective . . . here are three friends paying a lot of money to essentially be volunteers on this cattle drive. As the story goes, the paid cowhands disappear one by one leaving only the volunteers and the herd of cattle. The other volunteers bail out – after all they are suppose to be “on vacation” leaving behind our three cowboy heroes. Now the cowboy volunteers are not getting paid to “bring the herd in” but they are committed. So risking life and limb in torrential rains they drive the herd for miles and deliver the livestock successfully to the cattle ranch owners several days later. For their efforts, the boss refunds their money and each of our cowboys goes home knowing that they have finally found the true “it” in their lives.
Working Without Pay But Loving It
Written in 1991, City Slickers gives us a fascinating glimpse at what would become a career & economic phenomenon in the 2000’s. People of all ages being willing to work for no or little pay for the experience and possible opportunities that this work could open up for them – sometimes even paying out of their own pocket for the opportunity (as I’ll be doing when I work in Greece in October). These positions can be called any number of things: internships, externships, job shadowing, apprenticeships, mentoring etc.
Both my college-age daughter and niece are doing summer internships here in Northern Nevada. Why? They are enjoying having this inside track to experience and do things they wouldn’t have been able to do through traditional hiring practices. And it very likely this unpaid work will give them some advantage in future paid job opportunities.
Is It Worth It?
I have to believe that it’s a win-win for both the intern and the businesses but it is an interesting wrinkle when interns are being used more and more to replace paid staff especially in a deep recession as we have been experiencing. In a brand new book “Intern Nation” Ross Perlin explores both the history and the pros and cons of “contingency labor”. It’s fascinating. Watch for more on this topic in my July First Monday Tip Newsletter. For now, I’m with Billy Crystal and his fellow “unpaid interns”. It’s too much fun to miss!
Stepping Into Your Own Brilliance
What an exciting thought! You are brilliant. And you are are the verge of stepping into that brilliance in this next career chapter. So why is it so hard to remember what we’re really good at and what we really enjoy? During busy and stressful times we often forget the gifts that we bring to our workplaces and even to our families. We can easily slip into more of a “survivor” mode – just getting through the days the best we can. But what are we sacraficing when we do that? A lot! We lose (and others lose) from us not being at our best and using our talents for others.
So if you’re ready to step into your own brilliance take a moment to reflect back to times that you have been at your best. Remember how you felt, how others responded to you and the outcome of the things you were doing. No doubt . . . in those moments you were using your natural talents in some capacity. Wow! Now that feels good. So take it the next step . . . develop your natural talents into career strengths.
Identify Your Natural Talents
A natural talent is the way we think, act or behave that comes easily to us with genuine enjoyment. It’s like “second nature”. And our natural talents often have a central theme to them – much like a golden thread running through them.
Step back and ask yourself these five questions.
- What do I gravitate toward?
- What appeals to me spontaneously?
- What comes easily to me?
- What attracts others to me? What do they say I’m good at?
- What do I genuinely enjoy doing? Who do I enjoy being?
What do you see? Do you find you gravitate toward work with ideas, things or people? And what do you like to see happen as a result of your involvement? Keep it simple. Try and identify five general themes for yourself.
Develop Talents into Career Strengths
Now add knowledge, skills and a dash of practice to develop your natural talents into career strengths. Seek out opportunities that will give you a chance to use your natural talents. Need to add some knowledge or more skills? Then sign up for professional development classes; get a mentor or volunteer in a capacity that you can shine!
Give yourself a bit of time and then enjoy being known for bringing top performance to your work consistently. And the icing on the cake is that you are genuinely at your best. Feels pretty good, doesn’t it!
Welcome
As many of you know, blogging is taking a step out into the unknown – at least it is for me! I’m taking some of my own advice and stretching, exploring, and expanding my skills and reach.
Join me in my new journey. I’ll be bringing you new tips as I come across them, my thoughts about books I’m reading and information I’m sharing.
But even more, I’m here to listen to what YOU have to say. So, check in. Leave a comment. We’ll chat.
-Warmly, Kit
